So here’s the more detailed post that I promised. Unfortunately I’ve been too busy to make daily notes so I’m probably forgetting quite a lot but here goes anyway…
We had a well needed pyjama day on Wednesday, partly because we were still recovering from a busy weekend (or at least I was!) but also because D and I had a mild tummy bug. I feel like I barely moved that day, I certainly didn’t do any of my usual jobs, but somehow I managed to keep the girls going with activities: M has resurrected her old Sylvanian Families project (from 16 months ago!!): making tiny food packets. It is noticeably less labour-intensive for me this time around as she is now able to do a lot of it herself (measuring/cutting/calculating etc). You probably don’t get a sense of scale from the picture below but just to give you an idea – those larger food packets on the right are just over 2cm long. The project idea and the food labels are from the Sylvanian Families Fan Club magazine.
D has gone bonkers for an old calculator of J’s – in fact it’s so old it’s ready for the bin but it has nice big buttons and she loves it. She has been writing reams of sums; or getting me to write the sums, which she then works out on the calculator; or just asking me for sums and not writing it down at all. We also had a short spell of writing sums out ‘properly’ but really, she just loves pressing the calculator buttons! And even though she’s not working out the sums in her head, connections are still being made – she can now read numbers into the tens of thousands and is beginning to get really good at multiplication. Impressive for a 6 year old!
D is longing to be 7, but at the same time is regressing emotionally. It’s a normal part of being 6 and I remember M going through the same thing. D’s way of expressing her wobbles and showing her need for love is by pretending she can’t do her seat belt/coat zip/bath time. She has also asked me to stay with her until she goes to sleep each night, which I told her I’m happy to do until she doesn’t want me to anymore (to which she replied something along the lines of “that’s good, until I’m a teenager then” !!).
I’m happy to go along with all of these things but I’m ashamed to say I lost the plot a little when she asked me to help her on the toilet. There are only a few childhood phases I was happy to leave behind and that is one of them. We had a little chat afterwards and she burst into tears and told me how worried she was about her wobbly teeth. I was astounded – first of all that she could identify what the problem really was (better than me) and that I hadn’t thought there was something behind the toilet issue (if I had stopped to think for a minute I would probably have dealt with it a lot better – lesson learnt).
I learnt recently that there is a German saying: “wobbly tooth, wobbly child”. This so fits with both of my two!
On Thursday our play date was cancelled in case we spread our lurgy around so we decided to go to Wimbledon to buy some more clay from our beloved art shop. I had to put imaginary blinkers on M as I could see her eyes lighting up at all the wonderful things in there which we really can’t afford right now! We had a visit to the library which was quickly aborted due to building works going on in there and then home again for more craft and play.
D and M have been doing lots of imaginary play together recently – they are still working on a cardboard boat (it keeps collapsing), looking after D’s toy bunny, ‘Cute Twitchy’ and going to D land together. I can hear their dialogue maturing and becoming much more respectful of each other.
On Friday we went to see D’s best friend (D) and spent a happy couple of hours there. D was really upset to have to leave and they were both trying to organise a sleep over to extend the playdate, but given that they’re both hardened co-sleepers I don’t think it’ll be happening anytime soon! 😀
On Friday afternoon M asked to make gloop and D tried touching it for the first time! She managed a few minutes play before going to wash her hands. We also had a go at making our own watercolour paints after seeing this video on Facebook. They still haven’t dried but even if they don’t work, we had a lot of fun making them.
Today we’ve had a busy day of play, house work, baking and M went to a special Brownies event at a local school where she made putty and earned a Science badge. All good.